Jibin kissing Betsy's cheek as she holds her bouquet on the heritage balustrade at Cottesloe Civic Centre under a glowing dusk sky
REAL WEDDING JOURNAL

Betsy & Jibin

Registry of Births, Deaths & Marriages, Perth & Cottesloe Civic Centre

21 JUNE 2024 · PERTH, WA
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Words & photographs by Faran M.V, Moment Makers Media

Some weddings are built around a marquee and a hundred and fifty guests. Betsy and Jibin's was built around each other — a small, unhurried day that started in a quiet hotel room and ended on a heritage staircase overlooking the Indian Ocean, with barely a wasted minute in between.

I was there for all of it, camera in hand from the first curling iron to the last golden ray over Cottesloe, and this is the day the way it actually happened.

CHAPTER I

The Morning

We started early, in the quiet before anyone else was awake. Betsy's maid of honour was already at work — steaming the dress, doing up impossible buttons, kneeling on the floor to fix a shoe strap while Betsy laughed and tried to hold still. That's the part people don't always think to document, but it's my favourite part of any wedding morning: the friend who shows up hours early and just quietly makes everything easier.

Betsy relaxing on a couch in her robe as her maid of honour adjusts her wedding shoes

The kind of help that only a best friend gives — steady hands, no fuss, quietly getting everything ready.

There's a particular hush that settles over a getting-ready room once hair and makeup are mostly done and the dress finally goes on. Conversations get quieter. People start double-checking things that don't need checking. It's nerves, but the good kind.

Close-up of Betsy's curled hair and orange rose corsage while getting ready
Black and white close-up of Betsy having her earring put in before the ceremony
Betsy's maid of honour helping zip up her wedding dress by the window

The last zip, the last pin, and suddenly it's real.

CHAPTER II

The First Look

Before Jibin ever saw Betsy, Betsy had her own first look — with her parents, and then with her brother. It's a small tradition I always encourage couples to consider, because a parent's reaction to seeing their daughter in her dress for the first time is its own kind of vow. There were tears before either bride or groom had said a word.

Then came the one everyone was really waiting for. Jibin stood facing away, hands in his pockets, doing his best to look composed. He did not look composed. Betsy walked up behind him, I gave the word, and he turned around.

You can plan a wedding down to the minute, but you can't plan that face. It's my job to just be quick enough to catch it.

Jibin waiting nervously at the Registry of Births, Deaths & Marriages for his first look at Betsy

Thirty seconds before he turned around.

While Betsy and Jibin had their moment, the groomsmen were doing what groomsmen do best — straightening ties, cracking jokes to cut the nerves, and generally trying to look like they weren't just as anxious as the groom.

Jibin sharing a quiet moment with his groomsman before the ceremony
Jibin standing with his groomsman, both in navy suits, waiting for the ceremony to begin
CHAPTER III

The Ceremony

Betsy and Jibin were married at the Registry of Births, Deaths & Marriages on George Terrace — a spot I'll admit I didn't expect to fall for, but genuinely did. It's an intimate ceremony room, comfortable for 25 to 30 guests, with a wall of glass that opens the whole space up to a soft, glowing view over the city. I love shooting here for exactly that reason: it's the kind of natural light most photographers chase for outdoor ceremonies, except it's raining down through floor-to-ceiling windows in the middle of the CBD. I used a touch of flash through the vows to keep Betsy and Jibin lit properly against that bright window backdrop, without ever losing the view behind them.

Betsy in profile by the floor-to-ceiling windows of the Registry, the Perth skyline soft behind her

That view is the reason I always ask couples to consider a registry ceremony — nobody expects a government building to look like this.

Two small ring boxes, marked simply "Her" and "His," sat waiting on the table until it was time. Small details like this are so easy to miss on the day itself, which is exactly why I make a point of finding them.

Two ring boxes marked 'Her' and 'His' laid out before the ceremony
Close-up of Jibin placing the ring on Betsy's finger during the ceremony
Betsy and Jibin exchanging vows in front of family and friends under a hexagon arch at the Registry of Births, Deaths & Marriages

Vows, rings, and a room full of the people who mattered most.

After they signed the register and it was official, we gathered family and friends around the arch for a few quick group photos before stepping outside as a married couple for the very first time.

Betsy and Jibin embracing beneath a floral arch just after being pronounced married

Married, and still smiling at everyone who came to watch.

CHAPTER IV

Through the City

Parking in the Perth CBD on a weekday is its own small battle, so rather than fight for a spot, we simply called an Uber and let someone else deal with the traffic. It turned out to be one of the best decisions of the day — it meant Betsy and Jibin arrived relaxed, and gave us a reason to walk a few blocks on foot afterwards, which is where some of my favourite images from the whole day came from.

Right outside the Registry, the CBD does something most couples never think to use: glass towers, mirrored columns, and clean modern lines that turn a five-minute walk into a full architectural backdrop. We didn't need a second location for this part — the city gave us one for free.

Betsy and Jibin walking hand in hand beneath the mirrored columns of a Perth CBD building
Jibin kissing Betsy on the cheek among the steel columns of a modern CBD walkway
Betsy and Jibin walking hand in hand past the '141' building in the Perth CBD

Ten minutes on foot, and a whole different look for the gallery.

CHAPTER V

Golden Hour at Cottesloe

From the CBD, we made our way out to the Cottesloe Civic Centre for portraits as the afternoon turned to golden hour — and if you've never shot here, it might be my favourite portrait location in Perth. It's a genuinely striking building: Spanish Mission-style archways, a courtyard fountain, sweeping lawns framed by Norfolk Island pines, and heritage stone steps that lead down toward the Indian Ocean. In the space of twenty minutes you can move through half a dozen completely different backdrops without ever leaving the grounds — formal architecture, open lawn, intimate garden corners, and then that wide, glowing horizon for the sunset.

Betsy and Jibin arriving at the Cottesloe Civic Centre courtyard, its Spanish Mission archways and fountain behind them

We worked our way from the courtyard out to the lawn as the light started to soften and turn gold, which in Perth in June happens fast — you get maybe twenty good minutes, and I try to make every one of them count.

Betsy and Jibin forehead to forehead in the golden afternoon light at Cottesloe Civic Centre
Betsy and Jibin walking hand in hand across the lawn at Cottesloe Civic Centre as the sun begins to set
Jibin dipping Betsy for a kiss on the lawn at Cottesloe Civic Centre at golden hour
Betsy holding her bouquet in a soft portrait among the gardens of Cottesloe Civic Centre

We finished on the heritage steps as the sun dropped toward the water — the same steps countless Perth couples have stood on before them, and I understood exactly why the moment we got there.

Betsy and Jibin sharing a final embrace on the heritage steps at Cottesloe Civic Centre as the sun sets

The last light of the day, and the last frame of the gallery.

By the time we lost the light, Betsy and Jibin had been married for barely six hours and had already covered a hotel room, a government building with the best view in the CBD, a stretch of city architecture, and a heritage building overlooking the ocean — all without ever feeling rushed. That's the thing I try to get right on every wedding day: not more locations for the sake of it, but the right ones, used well.

Congratulations again, Betsy and Jibin. Thank you for trusting me with the day.

The Details

Couple
Betsy & Jibin
Date
21 June 2024
Ceremony
Registry of Births, Deaths & Marriages, George Terrace, Perth
Portraits
Perth CBD & Cottesloe Civic Centre
Photography
Moment Makers Media

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